Do you know how much your family spends on groceries each month? Do you really know? Or would you be surprised if you actually took the time to sit down and add it all up?
When it comes to feeding a family of 6 I expected our monthly grocery budget to be rather big, but my best guess was somewhere around $600/mth. I decided to test that theory and find out exactly how close I was after reading through another blog I enjoy,
Owlhaven, where Mary is hosting a $75 per week grocery spending challenge this month.
Mary is a very interesting mom, she has a total of 10 children...yes I said 10! Some of her children are biological and several of them have been adopted. She and her husband have such a profound and inspiring love for each and every one of these children and it's so evident in every post she writes. I've never met her, even though she lives nearby, but she strikes me as such a genuine person and a tremendously awesome model of a great mom.
Anyway, if anyone knows about the struggles of feeding a large family on a small budget, it's Mary! So this month she's been experimenting with her family's grocery budget because she firmly believes it's possible to feed a family of 4 on just $75 per week! Mary's so confident this really is possible, and even realistic, that she's published a book about it called
Family Feasts (hint, hint, just in case anyone's looking for Christmas gift ideas for me :D). Now granted, one of the main supplements her family has used to aid them through this process has been the huge garden they grow each year and all of the freezing and canning that comes out of that harvest to help offset their monthly grocery expenses...but she's also sticking to this $75/wk budget with 10 mouths to feed, not just 4.
But even if you don't have time to garden (like me, although I'm going to try really hard to get my garden up and running again next year! That's the plan, anyway) I think the concept of spending less on groceries is still totally doable!
I've been concerned about all the extra new expenses of converting our whole family to gluten free, and because those items are generally SOOOO much more expensive I honestly thought we've been spending a lot more on our groceries since making this change.
But when I sat down and went through ALL the expenses from Jan. - Aug. of this year and added up all the groceries we bought, all fast food, all eating out, etc. I was actually incredibly surprised to learn we now spend much LESS since making the change to going totally GF! How's that possible? Well, one of the major changes is that we eat out a whole lot less these days...because there's no options for, "hey, I'm tired and don't feel like cooking tonight, let's just order a pizza." And since the other fast food options are so limiting, you tend to get sick of fries all the time and just start eating them less often.
While I've complained about being forced to be so much more disciplined in my meal planning, it's been an awesome trade off to know that the extra discipline is actually saving us money!!!
That was the good news when I did this grocery spending analysis. What's the bad news? Well, the truth is I was WAY off in the actual amount of money we've been spending each month on groceries....WAY off! I added up all the grocery bills, the random trips to the grocery store, all fast food expenses, quick stops for drinks at a gas station, etc. I included not just edible items, but everything we buy at the grocery store, so all those expenses for shampoo, toilet paper, diapers, light bulbs, etc. each month.
Of course every month's totals varied, depending on how busy we were (relying more on fast food quick dinners) and when the paychecks arrived. So, any guesses just how much we've been spending??? For the past 8 months, Jan. - Aug. 2009, we've spent an average of.......$970 every month on groceries!!!
Ummm....YIKES!!!!!!!! I honestly had NO idea we were actually, truthfully spending soooo much money in this area! Wow!!! While my meal planning skills have greatly improved over the past few months, I know I could still be doing much better and definitely find ways to cut down this monthly expense!
So, I'm not going to go crazy, and no one's going to starve or anything, but I am going to make some big changes. Of course, I don't have any gardening stash to help me out here, but I fully plan to add that tremendous help into our groceries next year!
For now, here's where I'm starting. Since we've already bought our groceries this month, I'm going to start this savings experiment in October. Here's what I plan to do:
1. Setting the monthly budget: I'm going to cut our average spending from $970/mth to $600/mth. If I can drop the grocery bill by just that much per month we will end up saving $4,440 per year...that's HUGE!!! So breaking this down, that gives me $150 per week to work with for all our meal planning for my family of 6.
2. Feeling the difference: We all know how much easier it is to justify adding those extra impulse buys to the cart when we can easily swipe that debit card and hardly notice the extra $2, $3, and $5 items here and there. Instead, I'm going to buy everything with cash only. There's a much stronger emotional attachment when we hand over cash and our buying decisions become far more disciplined when we have a set maximum amount.
3. Keeping my eyes open for really great deals: Since I don't have a garden this year, but many other people do, now is an excellent time to take advantage of many garden over abundance sales! The expenses of fresh fruit and veggies can really add up, so I'm watching out for any great deals on these items I can buy in bulk and freeze. Now that we bought a new fridge we have our old fridge hooked up in the garage and it's ready to be filled.
4. The bulk advantage: I don't often buy in bulk, even though I know it saves me money, so I'm going to work harder at doing this more often, esp. when stores are having great sales! Normally I buy white rice flour and tapioca flour at Fred Meyer in bulk where I can also buy potato starch in bulk...even though I know I can buy the flours much cheaper at Winco. I drove out to Winco last week and discovered that (not all items) but many items were much cheaper there than they are at Wal-mart. Taking advantage of these savings requires a longer drive to the other end of town to get to Winco, but by shopping there first and then heading to Wal-mart for the items I know aren't cheaper or I can't get at Winco actually saved me a bunch of money last week.
And speaking of awesome deals, yesterday I was browsing through Craigslist and found an ad for a local farmer here in town who is nearing the end of his crop and has too much sweet corn still growing. So he listed an ad for u-pick sweet corn at only $1 per dozen!!!!
I called him and met at his house, and then followed him down the road about a mile to his corn field. Since KW was with me and I wanted 10 dozen ears of corn, he offered to help me pick it all. He also gave me two huge extra armfuls of corn just in case there were any bad ears in the bunch to make sure I would have the 10 dozen good ears I paid for. I grabbed a couple of boxes from the garage on the way over there and the car was completely full of corn by the time we were done.
KW and I arrived home just before IK and EJ got home from school...perfect timing! We unloaded the car and with all my helpers we went to work shucking all our corn.
I told the kids KW and I were just driving through town and saw some great looking corn so we decided to pull over and rob a corn farmer...they actually believed me for a couple of seconds! Ha! Then I explained the story behind this awesome deal and they were amazed at the tremendous savings! And we thought 4 ears for $1 was a great grocery store price last week.
LA came home shortly after IK and EJ and quickly joined in the fun. Even with all of these helping hands it still took us more than an hour to get through all that corn!
A few of the ears had bad tops on them, but we simply broke those sections off. The corn looked really good and juicy!
We were all sick of shucking corn by the time it was over, but you know what? That hour and a half we spent sitting out there was on a beautiful afternoon where the weather was simply perfect and it gave me a great opportunity to spend some quality time chatting and catching up with my children...can't beat that!
At the end of it all, we only had to throw out 2 or 3 ears of corn that were bad...which means those extra armfuls of corn the farmer gave me really paid off! By the time we were done we had a total of 139 ears of corn, so we were just shy of a total of 12 dozen ears of corn...all for only TEN BUCKS!!!
Which means we have plenty of fresh sweet corn to freeze whole and to blanch and cut off the cob and freeze into ziplock bags to store for easy corn to add to soups, stews, etc. all winter long! That's a really cool savings and the food will go a long way in helping to provide for my family this year. Awesome!
So I'm on my way to this new grocery spending/saving challenge. I'll keep you posted on my spending progress throughout the month as well as what meals we're eating as soon as this experiment starts next month! It should be an exciting challenge to see just how much money our family can save.
What about you? How much does your family spend each month? Want to join me next month and see how much we both can save?!